What does it mean when while you're friends with someone; the only time you ever talk to that person is when you initiate contact.
Welcome to the Rhetorical Question.
Have you ever really cared about someone who didn't feel for you in the same way? Have you been forced to sit by and watch them make decisions in life that while you may not approve of them but are impotent to help them or even express that you feel they are making a poor judgement call?